Warning: This article contains discussion of violence, mental health, and suicide which some readers may find distressing.
In a shocking and heartbreaking turn of events, a family of four has tragically lost their lives in what authorities are describing as an apparent triple murder-suicide. This devastating incident occurred on the morning of May 10, 2025, and has left not only the local community but also the broader nation in shock.
At approximately 9:45 a.m., the Nebraska State Patrol responded to a call at a home located in Johnson Lake, Plum Creek Canyon. Upon arrival, authorities discovered four deceased individuals inside the property. The victims were identified as Jeremy Koch, 42; Bailey Koch, 41; and their two sons, Hudson, 18, and Asher, 16.
The pair were advocates for honesty and openness surrounding mental health struggles (Facebook/ Anchoring Hope for Mental Health: Jeremy & Bailey)
What Have Police Said About the Incident?
According to a preliminary investigation report from the Nebraska State Patrol, the tragic deaths appear to be the result of a murder-suicide. It is believed that Jeremy Koch allegedly killed his wife and two sons before taking his own life. All four members of the family were reportedly found with fatal knife wounds, and the weapon was located at the scene.
The investigation into the tragedy is still ongoing, with autopsies ordered for all four family members. The Dawson County Attorney’s office and various local emergency services are assisting the Nebraska State Patrol in the investigation. The authorities have yet to release further details about the circumstances leading to the deadly act, but the community is already grappling with the shock and devastation of such a heartbreaking loss.
Who Were the Koch Family?
The Koch family was known in their community for their warmth, their advocacy for mental health awareness, and their devotion to their faith. Jeremy and Bailey Koch had been vocal advocates for mental health, often using their personal experiences to help others. They co-founded the Anchoring Hope for Mental Health page on Facebook, where they openly discussed the struggles they faced, particularly with suicide and mental illness.
Bailey was a well-respected writer and contributor to Her View From Home, a platform dedicated to uplifting stories about family and mental health. In her writing, Bailey shared her journey as a supportive spouse, caring for Jeremy, who had survived multiple suicide attempts. She spoke openly about the complicated fight for mental health, emphasizing that real change happens through unflinching honesty and telling the raw truth.
Her contributions were deeply valued, and many described her as a beloved friend and a tireless advocate for mental health. As a mother, she proudly shared how “brilliant” and “bright” her two sons were, and how she lovingly referred to her husband as her “hottie hubbie.” Their lives seemed to embody the values of hope, love, and perseverance, which is why this tragedy has hit so many so hard.
One of the sons was set to graduate (Facebook/ Bailey Koch)
What Has the School Community Said About the Incident?
The impact of this tragedy has rippled through the local school community. One of the sons, Hudson, was set to graduate from Cozad Community Schools just hours before the incident occurred. In response to the devastating news, Cozad Schools released a statement offering condolences to the family and acknowledging the deep impact of the loss on the community.
“Cozad Schools was made aware of a tragic situation that will deeply affect our Cozad community. Our thoughts are with all those impacted during this incredibly difficult time,” the statement read. “Cozad Middle School will open at 12:30 today for grieving students and staff. The Cozad High School Graduation ceremony remains scheduled for 4:00 pm today. Seniors should report to the high school at 2:00 pm today.”
The school district also made provisions for students and staff to receive grief counseling in the days following the tragedy, with support available both at the school and within the community.
The Holdrege Public Schools, located in a neighboring area, also expressed their sorrow at the loss. They extended their heartfelt sympathies to the family and stated they would offer additional support for students and staff who were impacted by the tragic event.
“Our hearts are with everyone impacted,” Holdrege Public Schools shared in a Facebook statement. “Holdrege Middle School will be open today from 3:00–5:00 p.m. for students and staff who wish to gather, grieve, and support one another.”
Both school districts demonstrated a strong sense of community support, reflecting the widespread grief felt across the region.
Where Is the Investigation Up To?
As of now, the investigation remains ongoing. Nebraska State Patrol, along with the Dawson County Sheriff’s Office, Eustis Fire & Rescue, and the Dawson County Attorney’s office, are collaborating to understand the full extent of the events that transpired in the Koch family home.
The cause of the deaths and the events leading up to this tragic incident are still under investigation. The authorities have vowed to continue working diligently to understand what led to such a devastating act and to support the community as they process the loss.
Mental Health Advocacy and the Koch Family’s Legacy
Bailey and Jeremy Koch were tireless advocates for mental health, striving to break the stigma surrounding mental illness and suicide. They dedicated themselves to helping others who faced similar struggles. The Anchoring Hope for Mental Health page they co-founded has provided valuable resources and support to countless individuals and families battling mental health issues.
Bailey, in particular, was known for her vulnerability in sharing her personal experiences. She regularly opened up about her own family’s challenges with mental illness, offering words of encouragement and support to others. Her candid approach made her a beacon of hope to many who were struggling in silence.
As the community mourns the loss of this beloved family, their advocacy for mental health will undoubtedly be remembered as part of their lasting legacy. The Koch family’s commitment to speaking out about the struggles of mental health and the importance of hope in the face of adversity is a message that will continue to resonate, especially in the wake of this tragedy.
Conclusion: A Community in Mourning
The tragedy of the Koch family’s loss has left an indelible mark on the Cozad and Holdrege communities, as well as the broader nation. As a family that had long been an advocate for mental health, their death serves as a stark reminder of the mental health crisis affecting so many families across the world. This devastating event also calls attention to the importance of providing adequate support and resources for those dealing with mental health challenges, both in the public and private sectors.
As the investigation continues and the community processes this immense loss, the Koch family’s legacy of hope, advocacy, and love will live on. Bailey’s words on mental health and perseverance will remain a guiding light for those who knew them, and for countless others who will be inspired by their story of courage in the face of adversity.
Further Reflections: Remembering Bailey’s Legacy
As Bailey Koch once said, “Mental illness does not win. Hope does.” In her honor, it is important that we continue to spread awareness about the significance of mental health advocacy, the importance of seeking help, and the need to keep sharing stories of perseverance in the face of mental illness. Let us all work toward a world where open conversation about mental health is no longer taboo and where families can find the support they need to overcome their struggles.
This heartbreaking event is a painful reminder that the battle against mental illness is ongoing, and that hope can make all the difference.
