My boyfriend doesn’t like confrontations either and he’s also a huge people pleaser which makes this situation harder for both of us.

Greetings. First of all, I’m so thankful for the support I’ve gotten here and all those little messages some of you sent me really made me understand the situation I was in.

I should probably tell you that this might not be the perfect bad ending you all expected, and I apologize for that. I’ve always had a hard time contradicting my sister. As I said in my original post, my boyfriend doesn’t like confrontation either and he’s also a huge people pleaser, which makes this situation more difficult for both of us.

However, I finally decided to talk to my sister yesterday. She was actually sitting in my living room in her underwear and bra, and I totally lost my shit. I told her several times to put on some clothes, but she said it was too hot, which she wasn’t. Then she made a little comment about me being insecure about my bf liking her or something, and that made me angry.

I sat her down and we talked. I told him she was making me feel uncomfortable. She was making my boyfriend uncomfortable and we wanted her gone. She seemed very shocked by this because I don’t think I’ve ever talked to her like that. However, she immediately apologized. She said she didn’t know or some nonsense I wasn’t going to fall for her this time.

I gave her an ultimatum. She had to pack her shit and go out for three hours. She looked very emotional and apologized profusely, saying “sorry” a lot and telling me she loved me. She said she would never intentionally try to hurt me. If I “misunderstood” her actions, it was not her fault. She kept saying she didn’t know. She said she was just trying to be “friendly” with my boyfriend, which is not true at all.

Okay, I agreed to continue living with us, and I forgot about this, on Friday I finished work at 5pm while Michael my husband at 3pm, and there was a glitch in the company that day and we were also released at 3pm. I have work a little further away and in half an hour I arrived home, I approach the window of the living room, what to see, my sister and my husband kissing and making love loudly, come on quick as Lucia can come from work, my husband said , my sister told her, she’s not coming for another 2 hours, I want to enjoy you one last time. Only when I entered the house, I had never heard a loud scream, my sister started crying, sorry, she said I don’t deserve you, I made you a big mistake. But I was most disappointed by my husband because he pretended to feel bad from her provocations but she had been a game for both of them.

She drove again and refused to leave, cried a lot and said she was unemployed and had no money, no place to stay, no friends, etc. I told her she had no friends because she was a whore (the first time I ever said something like that to my sister) She then tried to stop me from letting her stay by repeating the words “I’m your sister”, “family” “Your I want” etc. I helped him pack it all. things and put it next to her car. I told her she could stay in her car, I didn’t care. I wanted her to go.

It wasn’t really “epic” like some of you wanted. I was actually crying a little while yelling at him because I was shaking so much. At one point my bf had to tell me to calm down. It was just so overwhelming. I’m glad she’s gone.

She eventually left. She was calling someone and I’m sure she went back to her apartment. Thank God she won’t go to my parents because I don’t think she knows how to quarantine. I know she won’t quarantine and that was the main reason I hesitated to kick her out.

2-3 hours after she left, mom called me and yelled at me for taking her out. I shouldn’t have been shocked when she accused my bf of bothering my sister. My mom also asked me what kind of man I was dating, should I leave him etc. I should have expected that, really. I tried to reason with her, but my mother was just angry with me. She asked me things like “how could you do this to your sister” and similar nonsense that she should ask my sister. At that moment I was very angry. I was in tears and shaking. I just told him to get angry and hung up.